Thriveabetes

A Diabetes Mother's Call

You might remember a while back that I posted about being part of a Diabetes Ireland delegation to attend a diabetes briefing for TD’s and Senators in Leinster House. My friends, Rebecca and Davina both gave powerful and emotional speeches to our audience about life with type 1 diabetes. I asked Rebecca if I could shared hers on Thriveabetes and she was game. Rebecca is also one of my partners in crime in organising Thriveabetes :-) Here are her words;

Me & Rebecca outside Leinster House. I'm the short one!

My name is Rebecca Flanagan, I live in Co. Clare and I have 3 daughters, the eldest of which has Type 1 Diabetes. She was diagnosed just before her 8th birthday and, at 16 years old now, has lived with this auto-immune condition for 8 years – a condition she will have for the rest of her life. This was the start of our whole family’s ‘new’ normal. This new normal for my daughter now involves a minimum of 4 finger prick blood sugar tests and a minimum of 4 insulin injections every day in order to stay alive. EVERY DAY!

Part of the new normal for our family was figuring out the insulin dose based on the amount of carbohydrates she would be eating, but it’s not a perfect science and so many variables can contribute to her care. Additional testing may be required for stressful times, like the students taking exams right now; anxiety, exercise, sickness. As parents we became our child’s nurse and doctor, hoping we had been given the proper training to keep our child healthy.

Time off work must be organized to attend hospital appointments, schools must be cooperative, and her siblings sometimes have to take a back seat. Middle of the night blood sugar tests often have to be done. There are times that the whole family becomes exhausted and burnt out.

But I know I’m not alone in this life with type 1 diabetes. There are about 3,000 families in Ireland trying to manage this balancing act with a type 1 child in Ireland. Some children are only babies at diagnosis – imagine trying to count the carbohydrates and a correct insulin dose for an infant, when it’s hard to tell how much even makes it past their mouth. Imagine trying to get a toddler to finish their dinner because they already had their insulin, and if they don’t they are in danger of having a hypo (or a low blood sugar, the consequences of which can lead to a coma or even death). Imagine having to come in to your child’s school every day at lunch, as I did, to administer their insulin injection because the school has no resources to support this. And then imagine hoping that they finished all of their lunch and maybe not run around TOO much at break, for fear of a hypo.

Now imagine the teenage years when they just don’t want to deal with it anymore – when they long to be like normal teenagers and not worry about testing all the time and taking insulin before having a quick ice cream with friends. Imagine their worries and fears for the future – my teenager shouldn’t have to worry about whether or not her life expectancy will be shortened, or complications like blindness or liver failure, or how difficult it might be to have a healthy pregnancy in the future.

These are all realities for families with type 1 children. Parents worry whether they are doing it all right whilst dealing with the public perception amongst those who just DON’T KNOW the difference between type 1 and type 2 diabetes. We are constantly defending and educating, constantly worrying. Worrying about complications, worrying about negative relationships with food (eating means testing means injecting), worrying about things like diabulimia – when teenagers stop taking their insulin in order to lose weight. There’s just so much worry.

There’s only so much that we, as parents, can do. We need the support of well trained and well-staffed clinical teams. Every family, regardless of location, should have quarterly hospital appointments with a paediatric endocrinologist, nurse specialist, dietician and psychological support service. Some children, my daughter included, are currently attending clinics with NO endocrinologist. Transitional clinics for teenagers which include psychological support are majorly needed.

The research has been completed. The Model of Care for all Children and Young People with Type 1 Diabetes was published in December 2015. It is time to get the funding in place to secure the basic medical staff requirements and get this system on track. The technologies available for the treatment of type 1 diabetes should also be available to all children – my daughter has lived with type 1 diabetes for 8 years and we are no closer to obtaining an insulin pump for her - they should be available to any family willing to put the work in.

Adequate staff and patient training now will reduce the long term impact on the health service by minimizing the potential for complications in adulthood. My daughter and all the other type 1 children will be using the health service for life, and we need up front support now so that they do not become a statistic of complications such as blindness and amputations.

I am asking for all the TDs in attendance today to please push for the Model of Care staff requirements to be filled and work towards all of the recommendations made in this document. The strategy is in place but the funding needs to follow NOW. Please support our families and push for funding to be utilised effectively. Our children did nothing to deserve this illness but they deserve adequate treatment and care from the health service on a nationwide level.

 

Thank you Rebecca for sharing your speech. And thanks to both Davina & Rebecca for explaining, so well, what living with type 1 diabetes is really like.

Our first request from our TD's was that 0.4% (€5m) of the health service's annual spend on diabetes (€1.3 billion this year) be re-directed towards funding the paediatric diabetes strategy, so that huge financial savings from preventing diabetes related complications would be accrued in future years.

But then! We asked for a multi-year health strategy with cross-party agreement for adults with diabetes. The National Programme for Diabetes Team have come up with this strategy but the need government to approve the funding to deliver this plan!

Diabetes is costing the government €1.3 billion this year and over €800 million of that will be spent on dealing with the complications of diabetes. We can reduce the amount spent on complications each year by directing the financial savings that the HSE has made, in the recent years by working with the diabetes community, in reducing the cost of diabetes medications and devices. We need those savings reallocated to providing the manpower resources to cope with the rising numbers and to encourage more effective daily management and better health outcomes.

So what's next? Well, we can try to use every opportunity to remind our TD's why we need this. We need it because those of us who do not have diabetic complications want to stay that way for as long as possible. We need support from our medical teams to maintain that journey. Those of us who already have complications need the support of a complete medical team to minimise the damage of those complications.

 

Thriveabetes 2016 Schedule & Programme

There is less than 5 weeks until we all descend on the Killashee Hotel in Naas, Co. Kildare on Saturday October 1st. Over 50% of tickets have been sold, we have approximately 38 Adults with type 1 diabetes registered, 53 Parents of children with type 1 diabetes and 25 children with type 1 and their siblings.

And we have published our (long awaited) schedule for our day on the website.

The schedule is divided into 5 sections;

- Adults living with type 1 diabetes

- Parents of children with diabetes

- Childrens' Programme are divided into 3 groups;

* Age 5-8 years

* Age 9-12 years

* Age 13 - 16 years

Anyone aged 16 and older has the choice to join in with the adults with type 1 diabetes or they can choose to stick with the 13 - 16 year olds.

So without further "ado" click here for the complete schedule.

Speaker Spotlight - Joe Solowiejczyk

IMG_3343 Joe Solowiejczyk, or Joe Solo, is returning to Thriveabetes for a second year. And for those of you who may not already be familiar with Joe - you are in for a treat! Joe has been living with type 1 diabetes for over 50 years. He grew up in New York but now lives in California.

He is a registered nurse, diabetes educator and family therapist and works extensively with both patients and professionals on the Family-Approach to Diabetes Management. Helping children with type 1 diabetes and their families to cope with their child’s diagnosis and daily challenges of living with diabetes.

His ebook “A Type 1 Guide to the Universe” introduces a new way to learn to thrive with diabetes. It is the first book to integrate the psychological and emotional aspects of dealing with diabetes into the core of its approach.

You always get more than you expect from Joe and when I asked him to write a blog post for Thriveabetes I was blown away.

 

Joe Solo's Thriveabetes Experience

if you feel yourself needing some new information on how to manage it, if you feel like you’re dragging a bit, weary from the ups and the downs of it all, then you definitely need to come to Thriveabetes 2016 – guaranteed healing, fellowship and fun!

It was nearly 2 years ago when I met Grainne at the Friends for Life Conference held by Children with Diabetes in the UK. At that time, she shared with me her dream and Christine’s dream and Rebecca’s dream about creating something like that for Ireland.

She asked me if I would be willing to present at that conference if it were to ever come to be. Of course I said “YES” – how could I not to Grainne/ Her enthusiasm, courage, determination and heart made me want to “get on any train” that she was on! Of course I would do it.

Well, last year, the first Thriveabetes Conference happened and it was fantastic!!! Parents, older children and adults with their partners with T1 came – it was a sellout! And it was freakin’ FANTASTIC!!! I’ve been to many diabetes conferences in my life BUT this one was one of THE best for me. The energy created by Grainne, Christine and Rebecca together with the energy that the participants brought with them made the gathering something magical and mystical! People were hungry for information, which the promotion for the conference promised there would be plenty of – speakers from all over Ireland, from Diabetes Ireland and 2 presenters from the States – Kevin McMahon and myself. Kevin spoke about technology and about the diabetes industry. Consultants from Ireland presented on the most current standards of diabetes care available in Ireland today. Reps from the medical device companies were there showing of their newest and brightest diabetes gadgets!

DSCF1186There were presentations on coping with the daily challenges of living with this stupid disease (I’m very happy to be alive BUT I do hate it, on parenting on dealing with the emotional and psychological aspects of it. Besides being comprehensive IT WAS EMOTIONAL in the best possible way imaginable. Everyone at the conference had diabetes or lived with someone that had it – we were like a gathering of Fellow Pilgrims. Listening to others stories made each of us make more sense out of our own stories, like putting things into perspective and most importantly, realizing that each of us was really not alone. People were laughing and crying at the same time 

It was like there was a magical understanding amongst all the participants – even though we might not have personally known everyone there – we did feel, or at least I did, like I “knew” what each and every other person goes through – 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. And that made me feel better about having diabetes for 56 years. It totally relieved me of the exhaustion.

The most wonderful part for me was just that – the group understanding, the acknowledgement received from being with a group of Fellow Pilgrims for all the stinking hard work we put into managing our diabetes day in/day out – it was the feeling of not being alone. My “colleagues” provided me with new inspiration and energy, I left feeling like I could do it for another year – my batteries were fully re-charged!

If you’re looking for a magical diabetes experience, if you feel yourself needing some new information on how to manage it, if you feel like you’re dragging a bit, weary from the ups and the downs of it all, then you definitely need to come to Thriveabetes 2016 – guaranteed healing, fellowship and fun! It felt so good to laugh at such serious things with so many walking the same path! You owe it to yourself to check it out. And if you come and you really don’t get something deep out of it I personally will refund the cost of the conference to you!!!! I’m that sure that you’ll love it.

Joe Solowiejczyk, A Mile In My Shoes Consulting joe@amileinmyshoes.com

You can also find Joe on Facebook.

 

Thank you Joe for your words of inspiration. You can find out more about Joe's presentations at Thriveabetes 2016 here.

Register soon for Thriveabetes

“Thriveabetes” is a one-day conference for people living with type 1 diabetes, or for people who care about someone with type 1 diabetes. It takes place, less than 8 weeks away, on Saturday, October 1st 2016 in The Killashee House Hotel, Naas, Co. Kildare. Register or find out more about our amazing speakers here.